You don’t need better lines.
Ten lines to convince your client. Twenty answers to "it’s too expensive". You saved them and never used them.
That isn’t stupidity. Those lists give you something to do at the moment you feel powerless. But they all work on the same thing: another argument, another benefit, another reason. And that is almost never what is missing.
A decision works like fire. Three conditions are needed and they must be present at once: stake, trust and urgency. If one is missing, nothing happens. Not less. Nothing. And pushing harder doesn’t help, because you are adding heat to a conversation that has run out of oxygen.
These eleven sessions teach you to see which of the three is missing, and what to do then. Each session stands on its own, comes from a chapter of The Fire Triangle, and ends with an exercise for one conversation from your own pipeline.
The eleven sessions
- 01 Why those lists teach you nothingfrom chapters 5 and 6
- 02 Pitching doesn’t work any morefrom chapters 6 and 10
- 03 Stake, trust, urgency — and the sparkfrom chapters 3 and 7
- 04 What this means for SPIN, Challenger and MEDDICfrom chapters 8 and 10
- 05 Which objection belongs to which elementfrom chapters 10 to 15
- 06 Real urgency versus invented deadlinesfrom chapters 14 and 15
- 07 Stop sending quotes. Send a confirmationfrom chapter 16
- 08 The five steps, and the one you skipfrom chapter 17
- 09 The real client case, with the four emailsfrom chapters 17 and 19
- 10 Your pipeline without “working on it”from chapter 9
- 11 Three questions for the conversation that is stuckfrom the diagnosis
Where you start
Not with session 1, if you are in a hurry. With one conversation that is stuck right now.
Take one you haven’t heard from in three weeks and ask yourself three questions. Do I know what it personally gains or saves him? Does he dare take this risk, with me? And is there a reason it has to be this month and not in March?
Your work lies on the question you cannot answer.
Session 3 covers all three; sessions 5 and 6 show what to do when one of them is missing.